If you want to be more like your ideal self, make a list of character traits you wish you had and practice faking one on a daily basis.
That’s right, fake it till you make it – how do you think others got there?
It takes patience, perseverance and discipline to stick with it and continue to show up as your ideal self, but, if you manage it, pretty soon whatever it is you’ve been faking will become second nature. And then first.
If you lack the willpower necessary to keep it up, you can get help and support through the Re-Discover Your SELF online workshop.