If you’ve done a bit of living, you have emotional baggage. You are so used to it you don’t even notice it.
You probably think it makes you who you are. It does not. Who you are lays underneath your emotional baggage.
So drop it. Stop carrying it around and inflicting it on other people.
Ask yourself: “what’s my emotional baggage and how can I let go of it?
This is serious work and if you need some help with it, I offer it through the Re-Discover Your SELF online workshop.