Never criticise people – only the behaviour. Always separate the person from the behaviour. We all make mistakes, we all do and say silly things from time to time. Refrain from labelling and criticising people, especially in public. Continue Reading →
What are the things you are un-grateful for in your life? Make a list of the things you’re ungrateful for. Each item in that list will show what areas of life you’re having resistance to and will give you an opportunity to start working on yourself to fix it. Continue Reading →
No job should be excessively stressful.
If you find yourself constantly under pressure, something has gone wrong and you must stop and reassess.
Occasional stress is OK and even recommended but constant stress is counter-productive and dangerous. No job is worth losing your health over. Continue Reading →
Do you compare yourself to others?
Comparing yourself to others in any way is a useless soul-draining activity.
The only comparison worth making is between you yesterday and you today and only for course-correction. Continue Reading →
Why should you resolve to do what’s difficult only once a year? Start each day with a resolution.
Set a reminder on your phone so you don’t forget to think of one before you leave the house. Continue Reading →
Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback.
If it is negative, wouldn’t you rather know earlier?
Most people don’t ask for feedback in order to avoid potential unpleasantness of negative comments. Continue Reading →
What do you need to do to achieve your ideal physical look?
Make a list of everything you need to start doing and everything you need to stop doing in order to achieve your preferred physical appearance Continue Reading →
If your boss is moody or likes to shout, politely but firmly tell him or her how it makes you feel.
Telling people how their behaviour makes you feel is a non-threatening way of bringing up the issues that bother you.
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What part of your life are you putting on hold?
Are you sure you have your priorities straight? If you had only a short time left to live, would you make the same choices? Continue Reading →
Welcome alternative points of view. They will either prove you wrong or prove you right – you win both ways.
If you make it about WHO’s right, there will be winners and losers. If you make it about WHAT’s right, everyone’s a winner. Continue Reading →